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Note The Changes Over A Period Of Time – Journaling Prompt

Sunday, February 14th, 2010

Note The Changes In A person

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Journaling Prompt

I have recently come back from a visit back home. This time it’s been over a year since my last visit and a lot have changed. I was astonished by all the changes.

Some changes are subtle and creep up on you very slowly.

Such is a crack in the cement and a peeling of the wall and stains that keep on expanding until you climb up the staircase you used to climb on throughout your childhood and you cannot recognize it anymore. It looks old and disengaged. It became alien.

Such are wrinkles that add up one by one, until the wrath or love of time is boldly noted.

Having said that, some changes are rapid. They usually occur in children. A baby becomes a child.

In this layout I documented the changes in my youngest nephew: Ori (Who will be celebrating his 4th birthday this week). Ori is Asaf‘s brother. This is what the journaling reads:

A lot have changed during the year I’ve been away. His glamorous red curls have been cut down. His beautiful brown eyes were framed in glasses (bandaged after numerous accidents in kindergarten). However, two things remain exactly the same: the pacifier in his mouth and the wonderful spirit in his kind and warm little heart. I love Ori. A lot.

Document the changes you note in something or in someone after a long period of time you haven’t seen it or him.

Sometimes a day can be a long period of time and sometimes only after a decade changes start to become apparent.

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Have you been startled by a change lately? share your thoughts by leaving a comment. I really want to hear so please share.


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Journaling Prompt – Indicate Mother’s Day Differently

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009



I love my mom farther than my words can reach. Therefore, for mother’s day, this year, I want to indicate my appreciation differently. Instead of going on and on about how great my mom is, I want to concentrate on the first memorable [obviously there is no way to remember the breastfeeding part] experience that created the strong bond between us.

Each mother and child have one moment in life in which they feel the bond between them is sprouting. I am aiming for this moment and trying to recall and capture it forever.

For this week’s journaling prompt write about the moment the bond between you and your mother was established.

You might want to make a copy of your journaling and send it to your mom, she will surely treasure the memory.

Variations of this week’s journaling prompt:

  • Write about the “moment” the bond formed between you and your kids
  • Encourage your kids to write/tell you what was their “moment”
  • Interchange memories of the “moment” with your mom – this moment is not necessarily the same for both of you.


I want to share my moment with you in honor of my fabulous mom:

Shortly after the beginning of elementary school I became very sick. It was probably a virus I caught up from our guinea pigs (The poor guinea pigs did not survive…). My immune system completely shut down and no doctor could provide a diagnosis. The prognoses were not positive. The doctors looked worried and perplexed. I can only imagine what my parents had gone through. I was just a small child, feeling weak and drowsy, but not aware of what’s going on.

My dad stayed with my 2 older sisters at home and my mom slept on a mattress beside me at the hospital 24/7.

I remember one night, My fever went way up and nothing they did reduced it – I had an ice wrap, an alcohol bed – you name it… The test results showed another aggravation in my condition. I felt bad and my mom encouraged me to channel my thoughts into something positive. I came up with a song about two lions hugging each other and creating some healing heat together. Rest assured I also “composed” this song and sang it very loudly and repeatedly all night long…

In the following morning something had changed. The test results started showing an improvement. A true miracle the doctors thought. I know what had cured me. Now you know what it was too.

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When did the bond between you and your mother sprout? How are you going to honor your mother on May 10th? Share your thoughts by leaving a comment :)

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Journaling Prompt #19 – Affection

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008

Affection

I took this picture at Dublin’s zoo. The closeness and gentleness of the Orangutans were overwhelming. The female Orangutan stroked the little one gently and softly looked at his eyes. However, what really got me was something I’ve noticed only after downloading the pictures to my computer – the way the monkeys held their hands together. I guess the need to be touched affectionately is deeply rooted…

Look at the sadly looking eyes of the baby-monkey. Can you see the way it conveys his feelings to his mother monkey? The way it asks and receives the mother-monkey’s sympathy and affinity? The touch – a mere holding of the hands – is so simple yet the impact is so immense. It is absolutely enchanting.

This week’s journaling prompt, in light of the Jewish holidays, is “Affection”.

  • Have you been enamored by an expression of affection lately? Describe it. Who was the affectionate party and who was the recipient?
  • Are you into showing your affection in public? If so, how do you show it?
  • Do you show your affection only behind closed doors? If so, what is the reason for that?
  • What is your favorite expression of affection?
  • Who would you like to show his or hers affection towards you? Has he or she done it lately?
    • If so, when and how was it?
    • If not – what do you think is the reason for the frostiness? Are you conveying your needs and feelings clearly enough?

Please share your thoughts by leaving a comment on this post.

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Journaling Prompt #9 – Precede The Words To The Photos

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

I always advocate the importance of journaling and the archival character of the written word. Unfortunately, I don’t always do as I preach… Too often I would leave an empty journaling spot on my layout without telling the story.

I always have a perfectly good reason for not following my own advice and leaving the pictures without their underlying stories. Either I am not inspired enough for writing or I cannot find the perfect words to describe the moment I have captured on my page. Sometimes I just haven’t got the time to sit down and write the complete story, but I don’t want to leave anything out so I write nothing. Can you believe that sometimes this kind of reasoning makes sense to me…

I am ashamed to admit that I can’t remember ever coming back to a clear journaling spot and filling in the story. In the meantime, many layouts and some complete albums are bashfully waiting with abandoned journaling spots. The stories are left untold and sometimes are even forgotten.

Having said that, I am now determined to stop this bad habbit. From now on I am going to document all the stories of all the moments that I can possibly remember and not forgetting to interweave the emotions which the stories evoke.

The best way to do so is be preceding the words to the photos. If the layouts can wait for the stories, so can the stories wait for the layouts to be created and for the photos to be taken (or printed). This way no story will be left untold (in the worst case it would be left “unscrapped”).

This week’s prompt is to make an “heritage” folder on your computer (or online).

  • First, create the main “heritage” folder.
  • Then, create a sub-folder for each person who’s important to you. Do not forget to make a folder for your own personal stories. YOU are important too.
  • Tell each story in a separate document in the relevant folder.

You can organize each folder either chronologically or thematically or in what ever way you deem right – these are your stories and you are going to make the rules of telling them.

After you have prepared the interface for your stories you can start telling them. You can either designate 15 minutes a day for writing stories OR you can write whenever you feel inspired or when you feel like reminiscing.

While documenting the stories, don’t forget to include the sad as well as the happy. The angry as well as the loving. You do not have to share all your stories, but you would like to remember them and to derive pleasure from the good ones and strength from the sad ones.

Go on. Write your stories. You are also welcome to share the process of documenting your heritage with me.

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Journaling Prompt #1 – Family

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

In honor of Mother’s Day, which was celebrated last Sunday, I would like to dedicate the first journaling prompt to the concept of a ‘family’. Our family.

The notion of a family is extremely fluid, it is constantly changing and reforming. New branches are emerging in a steadfast manner. A spouse. A new born baby.

On the one hand, each marriage or life-partnership joins two families together and each child is born into an existing family; on the other hand, these occasions also create new families altogether. It all depends on your outlook.

This prompt is seeking for your point of view. How do you define YOUR family ?

Does your family consist of your spouse and children or do you still see yourself strongly connected to your mom and dad and to your siblings?

When the word ‘family’ crosses your mind, do you also think about your aunts and uncles? Do you picture your nephews and nieces? or do you adhere to your very own “close family circle”? Who are the people that first come to mind when you are referring to your family, and why?

What had made you stick to your broader family circle or what had made you choose the narrower one? Which circumstances? Which feelings? Which notions? What does the word ‘family’ means to you?

Think about YOUR family for a while and then write down whatever comes in mind.

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